Here’s my number one rule to meeting women online:
Get on the phone and then onto a “real date” AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!
Because the Internet is swarmed with what I call “professional chatters” and “professional callers”.
“Professional chatters” love to email and chat with you for fun.
They may send you tons of emails to tease you about “getting to know each other better”.
They may even have “cybersex” with you, but they will NEVER give you their phone numbers because they don’t know you “enough” yet.
I am not trying to scare you here, but if your cyber-hottie never gives out her number, there’s a big possibility that she is:
– Just fooling around and not too serious.
– Already involved with another guy.
– A man called “Jerry” who’s sitting in front of his computer in his old underwear somewhere in Chicago.
Then there’s the second group of women on dating sites that I call the “professional callers”. These girls are better than the chatters. They actually call you up and rack up your phone bill to make you feel like you’re involved in a relationship, but they never actually MEET you in person because they don’t “know you enough” yet as shown in this adultfrienedfinder app review.
Don’t waste any time on these professional callers or chatters. Do NOT settle for a “virtual girlfriend”. If
she doesn’t want to meet, then she isn’t serious; and if she isn’t serious, then don’t waste any time on her! As my sweet old grandmother used to say…
“If you can’t see her or touch her…then SHE
So, here’s the thing. I’m 59 and I’m having great success with online dating. I have a profile on maybe 4 or 5 dating sites (including adultfriendfinder) and I probably get 10-20 unsolicited emails (totally) from women on a daily basis. While it’s true that I wouldn’t want to meet most of them, I do get some pretty good ones too.
In addition, I usually do pretty well in getting responses to emails I send. I concentrate on making the subject lines irresistible and I’m not afraid of taking risks or hurting feelings in the body of the messages. By the way, thanks to you and your articles, I found that asking for phone numbers very quickly works wonders.
But while I do very well, I am 59 and I’m finding it difficult to meet women under 35. I should also say here that I definitely look young for my age and I list myself as 10 years younger on the dating sites.
I know that David D (and probably you) frown on that sort of thing, but I’ve never had a woman call me on it and I don’t see how I’m ever going to meet even younger women by being honest. Fact is, I’ve been married (and divorced) three times and I’m not looking to do that again anyway, so what difference does a little white lie about my age make?
My question is, can your program help me, even though I’m having very good success anyway? I know a sale is a sale, but I’d really like to hear your true feelings. I guess what I’m trying to say is if your program is for guys who can’t get any action online, then it’s not for me. But if you can help me improve on something I’m already good at, I’d be willing to try it.
Thanks for the help.’
** Dave M’s Response***
Ron, thanks for writing in. I’m a pretty non judgmental type of guy, so to each his own.
You’re getting somewhere around 10-20 emails from women emailing you through all the various websites you’ve got profiles on per day.
Not bad, even though these women must not be your type.
Because you’re getting women you’re not even remotely interested in, responding to you tells me something is wrong with your profile.
It needs a little ‘tweak’ here or there if you will.
I’m not exactly sure WHAT is wrong with the profile, I just know something is wrong because you’re attracting women you DON’T want.
‘Failure to hit the bull’s eye is never the fault of the target.
To improve your aim — improve yourself.’
– Gilbert Arland –
Failure to get the results you desire is never the fault of the women. To improve your aim — you must improve the way you view these women’s frame of mind.
And this is why the recon profile is SO CRITICAL to getting great results meeting women online.
Because you’re able to delve into the exact frame of mind as the women you’re looking for, seeing exactly what challenges they’re experiencing, and what type of emails guys are sending them.
You’ll become so good at understanding women, they’ll reply thinking you’re some kind of mind-reader!
And yes Ron, I agree asking for the numbers fast is like crack. We used to call this stuff ‘chick-crack’ because when you give it to them, they take to it like a crack addict does to a drug. (and if they don’t I’ve even got a ‘plan B’ which works like a charm)
When you go for her number quickly, it shows supreme confidence, (which most guys don’t have), and It shows you’ve got the cajones to take control of things and to go after what you want.
(All traits of the ‘Alpha male’)
Whereas most guys will email back and forth seemingly forever (I call it the ‘black hole’), waiting for THE WOMAN to make the move, and either offer her number or ask for yours.
(Can you say wuss?)
So Ron, your dilemma lies with the fact you’re having issues attracting the ‘younger ladies’…
Here’s my other suggestion, and I talk about this in several newsletters and on the program. It’s called M2M. You might have heard me mention this in the ‘Recon Profile’ PDF report.
Message 2 Market.
It basically means your profile needs to match with the market you’re going after. For instance…
If you wanted to go after 20 somethings. We all know 20 something year old girls love to do what?
Go out and party, be in ‘the scene’, have fun etc.
These girls need to see you as an outlet for these activities, ESPECIALLY if you’re outside of their age
range. You need to fulfill a need.
Let me repeat this again: YOU NEED TO FULFILL A NEED.
Most older guys see themselves filling this need by being a “Sugar daddy” (which I think is a huge mistake), I’d rather you show yourself filling that same need by showing them you’re AN OUTLET for the things they desire.
She wants to go out and party?
That’s cool, but if you’re a bit older I’m sure you’ve been to 10x more outrageous parties in your lifetime than she has. SHOW her. (photos, and in your profile)
Take what makes this market respond, and LOAD these things up in your profile. Give her a glimpse of what the life is like.
So you final question was:
CAN INSIDER INTERNET DATING HELP YOU?
YES. If you want to meet more women, in less time and get better results then you owe it to yourself to at least TRY it.
If you just learned 1 thing from the progam that helped you meet just 1 great woman, what would that be worth to you?
What if you were able to DOUBLE, or even TRIPLE your current results, how much would that be worth to you?
If you’re willing to put in a little ‘elbow grease’ to get everything setup the way I suggest, when you are done, the closest thing I can say to describe it would be:
MEETING WOMEN ON AUTOPILOT
…. And remember, it’s guaranteed, so if you’re not completely satisfied, simply return it within 45 days for a full refund.